prematurely abort ProcSendEvent if a ClientMsg has been fordwarded #219

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Build on ubuntu:20.04 - gcc	8m 3s
Build on ubuntu:20.04 - clang	7m 58s
Build on ubuntu:22.04 - gcc	7m 26s
Build on ubuntu:22.04 - clang	7m 51s
Build on ubuntu:24.04 - gcc	8m 51s
Build on ubuntu:24.04 - clang	8m 59s
Build on debian:stable - gcc	8m 24s
Build on debian:stable - clang	8m 22s
Build on debian:sid - gcc	8m 4s
Build on debian:sid - clang	8m 48s
Build on quay.io/rockylinux/rockylinux:8 - gcc	7m 57s
Build on quay.io/rockylinux/rockylinux:8 - clang	8m 52s
Build on quay.io/centos/centos:stream9 - gcc	8m 18s
Build on quay.io/centos/centos:stream9 - clang	8m 40s
Build on fedora:latest - gcc	8m 18s
Build on fedora:latest - clang	8m 13s
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