chore: clean dns code

Split from siderolabs#9596 (without IPv6 stuff). This PR does this things:
- Refactored `DNSResolveCacheController`. Most of the logic moved to `dns` package types. Simplify and streamline logic.
- Replace most of the goroutine orchestration with suture package.
- Support per-item reaction to the dns listeners/servers failing to start. This allows us to ignore IPv6 errors if it's disabled.
- Support per-item reaction to the dns listeners/servers failing to stop.

Signed-off-by: Dmitriy Matrenichev <[email protected]>

Author: Dmitriy Matrenichev

go.mod

@@ -171,6 +171,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/spf13/cobra v1.8.1
 	github.com/spf13/pflag v1.0.5
 	github.com/stretchr/testify v1.9.0
+	github.com/thejerf/suture/v4 v4.0.5
 	github.com/u-root/u-root v0.14.0
 	github.com/ulikunitz/xz v0.5.12
 	github.com/vmware/vmw-guestinfo v0.0.0-20220317130741-510905f0efa3

go.sum

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+github.com/thejerf/suture/v4 v4.0.5 h1:F1E/4FZwXWqvlWDKEUo6/ndLtxGAUzMmNqkrMknZbAA=
+github.com/thejerf/suture/v4 v4.0.5/go.mod h1:gu9Y4dXNUWFrByqRt30Rm9/UZ0wzRSt9AJS6xu/ZGxU=
 github.com/u-root/u-root v0.14.0 h1:Ka4T10EEML7dQ5XDvO9c3MBN8z4nuSnGjcd1jmU2ivg=
 github.com/u-root/u-root v0.14.0/go.mod h1:hAyZorapJe4qzbLWlAkmSVCJGbfoU9Pu4jpJ1WMluqE=
 github.com/u-root/uio v0.0.0-20240224005618-d2acac8f3701 h1:pyC9PaHYZFgEKFdlp3G8RaCKgVpHZnecvArXvPXcFkM=