[VL] When reading a iterator or a collection, first batch / first row is used to get context information

[zhztheplayer]

We have a couple of practices to use first batch or first row of a iterator to make decisions. This is generally considered sub-optimal and should be avoided.

Let's see if we have better solutions to fix them.

[zhztheplayer]

Code:

https://github.com/oap-project/gluten/blob/7620044711efc6274db56b4040d5e25729913672/cpp/core/jni/JniWrapper.cc#L690

https://github.com/oap-project/gluten/blob/7620044711efc6274db56b4040d5e25729913672/cpp/core/jni/JniWrapper.cc#L763-L767

From PR #1077

[zhztheplayer]

Code:
https://github.com/oap-project/gluten/blob/7620044711efc6274db56b4040d5e25729913672/gluten-data/src/main/scala/io/glutenproject/execution/GlutenRowToArrowColumnarExec.scala#L399-L417

From PR #1082

[zhztheplayer]

Code:

https://github.com/oap-project/gluten/blob/7620044711efc6274db56b4040d5e25729913672/gluten-data/src/main/java/io/glutenproject/columnarbatch/GlutenColumnarBatches.java#L46-L52

From PR #325