Use @_spi to hide internal methods

[AnthonyMDev]

Lots of "public but internal methods" that are used by the generated code could have better access control with an @_spi attribute.

[AnthonyMDev]

A lot of this has already been done for 2.0, but we should do an audit and make sure all of these apis are covered

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