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Derived from our inclusive language efforts (see #4494 and 7.1 of our styleguide).

@kenodegard said in #4494 (comment):
There are two white* variables in conda-build, both are recipe keywords: missing_dso_whitelist and runpath_whitelist.

Both keywords are also in use in mamaba/boa so we will need to offer similar modifications there.

Furthermore, since conda-build doesn't have an aliasing system like conda.base.context.Context does, this becomes a large enough change that I'm wondering if we should backlog the allow/deny rewording for now?

At the very least, the allow/deny rewording should be spun off from this epic into a separate effort.