feat: apply backendTLSSettings to all Backend Types

[zhaohuabing]

impl: #6257

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 90.74074% with 5 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 71.14%. Comparing base (b3c4f51) to head (0505591).
Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
internal/gatewayapi/backendtlspolicy.go	89.13%	3 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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  Coverage   71.13%   71.14%           
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  Files         220      220           
  Lines       37892    37951   +59     
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+ Hits        26955    27000   +45     
- Misses       9369     9382   +13     
- Partials     1568     1569    +1     

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