0.104.x release planning

[djc]

• Remove deprecated Error variants #391
• Simplify/clarify extended key usage validation API #392
• Restore GeneralDnsNameRef, use in GeneralName::DnsName. #183

We can technically switch to webpki 0.104.x in rustls 0.23.x but I wonder if that'll get a little complicated with the error variants?

Anything else?