* fix: use Started instead of listening

To avoid breaking existing clients of Ryuk, using a custom Ryuk version with older testcontainers versions.

* fix: update tests

* chor: better message

* docs: fix

* fix: simplify message

Fix the alpine image version using both 3.19 and 3.20 which could
lead to compatibility issues.

Bumps [docker/setup-buildx-action](https://github.com/docker/setup-buildx-action) from 2 to 3.
- [Release notes](https://github.com/docker/setup-buildx-action/releases)
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Fix shutdown after signal to allow the last client disconnect to trigger
a prune check. Previous this would always waiting for the shutdown timeout,
which by default is 10 minutes, resulting in an unnecessarily slow shutdown.

Fix multiple filters which was only applying the removal of the last
iterated set.

Add tests to validate that:
* Multiple filters are correctly processed
* Duplicate filters are correctly ignored
* Immediate shutdown occurs if no clients

This increasing code coverage to 89.4%.

Use best effort in removal if resource changes are detected after
a shutdown has been signalled to allow as much to be cleaned up as
possible.

This includes a new setting ChangesRetryInterval exposed by the env
variable RYUK_CHANGES_RETRY_INTERVAL and defaults to 1 second which
is used to control the interval between retries if resource changes
are detected.

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Bumps [golangci/golangci-lint-action](https://github.com/golangci/golangci-lint-action) from 6.1.0 to 6.1.1.
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- [Commits](golangci/golangci-lint-action@aaa42aa...971e284)

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Bumps [github.com/stretchr/testify](https://github.com/stretchr/testify) from 1.9.0 to 1.10.0.
- [Release notes](https://github.com/stretchr/testify/releases)
- [Commits](stretchr/testify@v1.9.0...v1.10.0)

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