Add option to skip recursive list and delete operation in the S3 exchange

[jack-o-hara]

The recursive list then delete operation adds pressure to the exchange. This can help reduce the S3 volume and likelihood of throttling by the S3 service.

S3 management lifecycle rules can clean up these files after 24h (cost is paid via management fees instead of LIST operation cost) so it's not required.

We rebuilt the trino-exchange-filesystem module with this operation disabled on aborts/cleanup and noticed a significant reduction in throttling in our production environment.

[raunaqmorarka]

cc: @losipiuk

[losipiuk]

@jack-o-hara makes sense. Happy would you be wiling to send a PR which adds that?