Use `compio` instead `tokio_uring`

[TsubakiDev]

Describe the problem related to your feature request.

Compared with tokio_uring and monoio, compio has better performance and compatibility, and has better support for the windows platform.

What solution would you like?

Replace tokio_uring in valence and use compio

What alternative(s) have you considered?

monoio, but it does not support windows platform

Additional context

As far as I know, Apache OpenDAL™ is migrating to compio and there may be detailed performance testing there.

[giantcow]

Just want to play devils advocate here: Is this truly going to be worth moving away from tokio for the runtime? Tokio seems to be the de-facto runtime.

The OpenDAL analogy is a good one, but I guess I'm really not seeing Windows support being a first-class requirement when a majority of servers are ran on linux boxes.

Also FWIW, I believe tauri uses Tokio, and they aim to be the cross-platform experience for apps using TS+Rust.

[andrewgazelka]

My 2¢ after spending a month debugging io_uring issues in my project: I'd avoid using io_uring unless it's absolutely necessary. It gets really messy in many scenarios.

Also, regarding monoio - our experience wasn't great. The codebase was problematic, with frequent crashes in production and unnecessary heap allocations during vectored writes.