Bug: 通过setGridOptions更新配置时会导致表格状态丢失，如设置loading状态导致列排序状态丢失

[NoeyNoi]

Version

Vben Admin V5

Describe the bug?

通过setGridOptions更新配置时会导致表格状态丢失，如设置loading状态导致列排序状态丢失，官方文档示例即可复现
步骤：
1、点击https://doc.vben.pro/components/common-ui/vben-vxe-table.html#%E5%9F%BA%E7%A1%80%E8%A1%A8%E6%A0%BC示例中的 Age 列进行排序
2、点击显示loading按钮

结果：排序状态丢失，vxe官方的状态不会丢失
排查思路：通过排查怀疑是setGridOptions这个api更新配置时原实例状态丢失

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