Fix the shutdown timeout hung #2230
                
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Fix #2172 (comment) that Shutdown hangs when connection stuck in creating stage.
When application is shutting down, connection container tries to send Fin to every connection for service to stop routing traffic to the service connection, waiting for the FinAck from service with retries. When the connection is never successfully connected, or the connection is already disconnected and before removed from the container, Fin is never sent. There is no need to wait for FinAck in such cases. So we change the logic to check the connection status first, if it is not in connected state, the connection stops itself proactively.