[13.1] Replace DevCertHostingExtensions with WithServerAuthenticationCertificateConfiguration api

[afscrome]

Closes #981

Replace the DevCertHostingExtensions class with the new Apis introduced in aspire 13.1 to inject TLS certs into resources.

PR Checklist

• Created a feature/dev branch in your fork (vs. submitting directly from a commit on main)
• Based off latest main branch of toolkit
• PR doesn't include merge commits (always rebase on top of our main, if needed)
• Contains NO breaking changes
• Every new API (including internal ones) has full XML docs
• Code follows all style conventions

Other information

This PR relies on APIs introduced in 13.1, so it's mergeable quite yet. It also doesn't fully build as the hacks I did to point it to the pre-release packages didn't fully work, but they worked well enough for the changes I needed

[afscrome]

FYI @danegsta - consumer of the new TLS cert injection apis.