add openssl compat handling

[cjdoris]

With this PR, if you specify version = "<=python" on OpenSSL_jll then the version installed will be compatible with the version of OpenSSL shipped with Python. We do the same thing over in CondaPkg.jl.

You can test this out by installing juliapkg from this branch:

pip install juliapkg@git+https://github.com/JuliaPy/pyjuliapkg@openssl-compat

and then do this in Python before anything else you run

import juliapkg
juliapkg.add("OpenSSL_jll", uuid="458c3c95-2e84-50aa-8efc-19380b2a3a95", version="<=python")
juliapkg.resolve()

If this PR is merged then we'll add the <=python compat to juliacall so this happens transparently in the future.

[mtsokol]

@cjdoris I'm not sure if this might be connected but for juliacall 0.9.25, which adds <=python constraint on OpenSSL_jll I'm experiencing an issue on macos-latest M1 runner when precompiling HDF5, so sharing it here just for visibility: JuliaPy/PythonCall.jl#615