Upgrade forbiddenapis to version 3.5

[uschindler]

This tones down some verbose warnings printed while checking Java 19 and Java 20 sourcesets for the MR-JAR.

$ gradlew forbiddenApis
Starting a Gradle Daemon (subsequent builds will be faster)

> Task :errorProneSkipped
WARNING: errorprone disabled (skipped on builds not running inside CI environments, pass -Pvalidation.errorprone=true to enable)

> Task :lucene:core:forbiddenApisMain19
While scanning classes to check, the following referenced classes were not found on classpath (this may miss some violations):
  java.lang.foreign.MemorySegment, java.lang.foreign.MemorySession, java.lang.foreign.ValueLayout,... (and 5 more).

> Task :lucene:core:forbiddenApisMain20
While scanning classes to check, the following referenced classes were not found on classpath (this may miss some violations):
  java.lang.foreign.Arena, java.lang.foreign.MemorySegment, java.lang.foreign.SegmentScope,... (and 6 more).

BUILD SUCCESSFUL in 35s
233 actionable tasks: 76 executed, 157 up-to-date

[uschindler]

See policeman-tools/forbidden-apis#207 for details.