Add ability to select GPU for ffmpeg

[NickM-27]

Type of change

• Dependency upgrade
• Bugfix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature
• Breaking change (fix/feature causing existing functionality to break)
• Code quality improvements to existing code
• Documentation Update

Additional information

• This PR fixes or closes issue: closes Improved Multi GPU support #18958
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• The code change is tested and works locally.
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• There is no commented out code in this PR.
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