CNDB-15900: CNDB 12702: Allow custom internode inbound metrics (#1543)

[michaelsembwever]

https://github.com/riptano/cndb/issues/15900

Port into main-5.0 commit 5bb86ab

CNDB-15900: CNDB 12702: Allow custom internode inbound metrics (#1543)
Allows  custom inbound internode metrics

[github-actions]

Checklist before you submit for review

• This PR adheres to the Definition of Done
• Make sure there is a PR in the CNDB project updating the Converged Cassandra version
• Use NoSpamLogger for log lines that may appear frequently in the logs
• Verify test results on Butler
• Test coverage for new/modified code is > 80%
• Proper code formatting
• Proper title for each commit staring with the project-issue number, like CNDB-1234
• Each commit has a meaningful description
• Each commit is not very long and contains related changes
• Renames, moves and reformatting are in distinct commits
• All new files should contain the DataStax copyright header instead of the Apache License one

[sonarqubecloud]

Quality Gate passed

Issues
0 New issues
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90.0% Coverage on New Code
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[cassci-bot]

❌ Build ds-cassandra-pr-gate/PR-2109 rejected by Butler

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4 regressions found
See build details here

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Found 4 new test failures

Test	Explanation	Runs	Upstream
o.a.c.cql3.validation.operations.AggregationQueriesTest.testAggregationQueryShouldNotTimeoutWhenItExceedesReadTimeout (compression)	REGRESSION	🔴🔴	2 / 17
o.a.c.db.commitlog.CommitLogSegmentManagerCDCTest.testSegmentFlaggingWithNonblockingOnCreation ()	NEW	🔴⚪	0 / 17
o.a.c.distributed.test.TopPartitionsTest.basicRegularTombstonesTest[Incremental]	REGRESSION	🔴🔵	0 / 17
o.a.c.distributed.test.repair.ForceRepairTest.terminated successfully ()	NEW	🔴⚪	0 / 17

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Found 5 known test failures

[michaelsembwever]

test failures not reproducible locally.