Extend WgpuSetup, make egui_kittest wgpu setup configurable & prefer software rasterizers for testing

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• Related to epaint software renderer #1129
• Needed for..
  • Use a software renderer for kittest rerun-io/rerun#8245
  • Make graphics adapter creation list all adapters one by one and inform why they weren't picked rerun-io/rerun#8475

See lengthy title! :)
The main addition to WgpuSetup is the ability to use manually select an adapter out of enumerate_adapters on native. This allows for maximum flexibility while still being able to check against for surface compatibility! (which is in contrast to WgpuSetup::Existing which is pretty much as flexible but can't know about the surface).

egui_kittest now uses WgpuSetup so it has all the same flexibility in configuration. But it uses a different default which will prefer software rasterizers.
-> At first I thought request_adapter's force_fallback_adapter is what I needed here, but this forcing functionality isn't all that great since it will fail if there's no software rasterizer around (which is unfortunately the regular state of things on Mac). Since it also doesn't have any effect on WebGPU (unlike power preference!), I removed it again from WgpuSetup as it doesn't seem to be all that useful in general to me 🤷

There's some more fairly aggressive Arc'ing going on here since it made my life a lil bit easier and I figured those will all go away anyways once

• Implement Clone on Api Types and Arc Dispatcher gfx-rs/wgpu#6665

is landed and released :)

TODO:

• remove force_fallback again
• green ci
• use this in Rerun to make sure I'm not missing something

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Preview available at https://egui-pr-preview.github.io/pr/5506-configurable-test-renderer
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