remove hashicorp-forge/bbolt and replace with official beta release

[raskchanky]

Description

This removes our dependence on hashicorp-forge/bbolt and replaces it with the official etcd-io/bbolt. Note that the fix in question, which we created the hashicorp-forge/bbolt for in the beginning, will be part of the 1.4.0 release, not part of the 1.3.x release that we currently use. That fix is here if people are interested. v1.4.0-beta.0 is the latest tag currently available.

I'm guessing we want to move off the beta tag once a stable tag has been cut but given the pace at which this is happening, that might not be for awhile, and the move off of hashicorp-forge/bbolt needs to happen in the next few weeks for compliance reasons.

TODO only if you're a HashiCorp employee

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