enh: Sync tools with Bokeh and use auto_box_zoom as default

[hoxbro]

Having auto_box_zoom as default is better, in my opinion, but if people disagree, they are welcome to revert.

Code from: #6649

Screencast.From.2025-07-03.15-53-13.mp4

Backward compatibility from 3.1.0 to the latest Bokeh release:

Checking if we can have auto box zoom default:

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 88.90%. Comparing base (a1a4375) to head (c2d1fdc).

Additional details and impacted files

@@           Coverage Diff           @@
##             main    #6650   +/-   ##
=======================================
  Coverage   88.90%   88.90%           
=======================================
  Files         328      328           
  Lines       70044    70053    +9     
=======================================
+ Hits        62271    62280    +9     
  Misses       7773     7773           

☔ View full report in Codecov by Sentry.
📢 Have feedback on the report? Share it here.

🚀 New features to boost your workflow:

• ❄️ Test Analytics: Detect flaky tests, report on failures, and find test suite problems.