enhance: [StorageV2] add close state validation for storage readers and writers

[shaoting-huang]

related: #39173

bump milvus-storage version, include:

• add row_num interface for rowgroupmeta milvus-storage#213

key changes:

• Add closed_ flag to ParquetFileWriter to prevent operations on closed writers
• Add closed_ flag to PackedRecordBatchWriter to prevent operations on closed writers
• Add file reader tracking fields to PackedRecordBatchReader (file_reader_to_path_index_, original_paths_, read_count_)
• Implement proper close state checking in writer implementations
• Prevent duplicate close operations and ensure proper cleanup

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