Add source catalog source id column, use for mouseover

[cshanahan1]

(this is on top of 3854 which is on top of #3835, so just look at the last commit for the diff isolated to this PR)

Adds a required source ID column to source catalogs. If no catalog is selected, the index of each source in the table is used as its ID. This ID is displayed in the mouseover info for the catalog.

I also added a few small changes including having a column non-selection be closer to the top of the list (for example, if a X/Y col was auto detected but you don't want to load it, the --- option was at the bottom of the list before so it wasn't super clear that you could choose NOT to load this column. I moved it to the second entry so its at the top of the list. I also added a few more column name matches when guessing RA/Dec/X/Y so that you can export a markers table and load it back in as a source catalog seamlessly.

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[kecnry]

can/should this use the original name of the column? Maybe since this is only used for mouseover and not any linking, we could just store the column name in the metadata rather than having to hardcode a label (and just avoid duplications if its also listed in other columns)?