anthropic: add optional callback handlers

[clutchski]

This pull request adds the ability to add callbacks to Anthropic LLM calls for observability and other use cases. It also adds the missing callback handler and tests. It follows the same patterns as OpenAI (which is fully implemented).

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[clutchski]

This is related to #949, but that one doesn't the options / tests / etc. It should close that PR.

[KerryJones]

+1 this would be immediately useful